帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:30:10

How To Win Friends And Influence People

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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Part 4 - Nine Ways To Change People Without Giving Offence Or<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">• 1 - How to Dig Your Marital Grave in the Quickest Possible Way<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">• 3 - Do This and You'll Be Looking Up the Time-Tables to Reno<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">• 4 - A Quick Way to Make Everybody Happy<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">• 6 - If you Want to be Happy, Don't Neglect This One<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">• 7 - Don't Be a "Marriage Illiterate"<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:30:18

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">--------------<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">• 1. Get out of a mental rut, think new thoughts, acquire new<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">visions, discover new ambitions.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">• 2. Make friends quickly and easily.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">• 3. Increase your popularity.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">• 5. Increase your influence, your prestige, your ability to get things<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">• 7. Become a better speaker, a more entertaining conversationalist.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">• 8. Arouse enthusiasm among your associates.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">This book has done all these things for more than ten million readers<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Preface to Revised Edition<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">How to Win Friends and Influence People was first published in 1937<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">in an edition of only five thousand copies. Neither Dale Carnegie nor<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">modest sale. To their amazement, the book became an overnight<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">sensation, and edition after edition rolled off the presses to keep up<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">with the increasing public demand. Now to Win Friends and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">InfEuence People took its place in publishing history as one of the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">all-time international best-sellers. It touched a nerve and filled a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">human need that was more than a faddish phenomenon of post-<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Depression days, as evidenced by its continued and uninterrupted<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">sales into the eighties, almost half a century later.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Dale Carnegie used to say that it was easier to make a million dollars<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">than to put a phrase into the English language. How to Win Friends<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and Influence People became such a phrase, quoted, paraphrased,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">found it relevant.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:30:49

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Which brings us to the logical question: Why revise a book that has<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">proven and continues to prove its vigorous and universal appeal?<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Why tamper with success?<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">To answer that, we must realize that Dale Carnegie himself was a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">tireless reviser of his own work during his lifetime. How to Win<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Friends and Influence People was written to be used as a textbook<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">today's readers. Certain examples and phrases seem as quaint and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:31:03

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Our purpose, therefore, in this revision is to clarify and strengthen<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the book for a modern reader without tampering with the content.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">So his voice still speaks as forcefully as ever, in the book and in his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Carnegie courses in increasing numbers each year. And other<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Dale Carnegie<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">During the first thirty-five years of the twentieth century, the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">different books. Most of them were deadly dull, and many were<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">financial failures. "Many," did I say? The president of one of the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">money on seven out of every eight books it published.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Why, then, did I have the temerity to write another book? And, after<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">I had written it, why should you bother to read it?<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Fair questions, both; and I'll try to answer them.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>

帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:31:25

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">I have, since 1912, been conducting educational courses for business<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and professional men and women in New York. At first, I conducted<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">more clarity, more effectiveness and more poise, both in business<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">But gradually, as the seasons passed, I realized that as sorely as<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">these adults needed training in effective speaking, they needed still<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">more training in the fine art of getting along with people in everyday<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">I also gradually realized that I was sorely in need of such training<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">myself. As I look back across the years, I am appalled at my own<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">as this had been placed in my hands twenty years ago! What a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">a housewife, architect or engineer. Research done a few years ago<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">under the auspices of the Carnegie Foundation for the Advancement<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">of Technology. These investigations revealed that even in such<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">technical lines as engineering, about 15 percent of one's financial<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">success is due to one's technical knowledge and about 85 percent is<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:31:49

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">For many years, I conducted courses each season at the Engineers'<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Club of Philadelphia, and also courses for the New York Chapter of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">classes. They came to me because they had finally realized, after<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">years of observation and experience, that the highest-paid personnel<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">in engineering are frequently not those who know the most about<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">engineering. One can for example, hire mere technical ability in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">engineering, accountancy, architecture or any other profession at<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">nominal salaries. But the person who has technical knowledge plus<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the ability to express ideas, to assume leadership, and to arouse<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">enthusiasm among people-that person is headed for higher earning<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">power.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">In the heyday of his activity, John D. Rockefeller said that "the ability<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">to deal with people is as purchasable a commodity as sugar or<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">coffee." "And I will pay more for that ability," said John D., "than for<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">any other under the sun."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Wouldn't you suppose that every college in the land would conduct<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">courses to develop the highest-priced ability under the sun? But if<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">there is just one practical, common-sense course of that kind given<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">for adults in even one college in the land, it has escaped my<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">attention up to the present writing.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">The University of Chicago and the United Y.M.C.A. Schools conducted<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">a survey to determine what adults want to study.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">That survey cost $25,000 and took two years. The last part of the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">survey was made in Meriden, Connecticut. It had been chosen as a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">typical American town. Every adult in Meriden was interviewed and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">business or profession? Your education? How do you spend your<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">spare time? What is your income? Your hobbies? Your ambitions?<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Your problems? What subjects are you most interested in studying?"<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">And so on. That survey revealed that health is the prime interest of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">adults and that their second interest is people; how to understand<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and get along with people; how to make people like you; and how to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">win others to your way of thinking.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>

帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:32:38

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">So the committee conducting this survey resolved to conduct such a<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">course for adults in Meriden. They searched diligently for a practical<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">textbook on the subject and found-not one. Finally they approached<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">one of the world's outstanding authorities on adult education and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">asked him if he knew of any book that met the needs of this group.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"No," he replied, "I know what those adults want. But the book they<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">need has never been written."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">I knew from experience that this statement was true, for I myself<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">handbook on human relations.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Since no such book existed, I have tried to write one for use in my<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">own courses. And here it is. I hope you like it.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the new psychologists. In addition, I hired a trained researcher to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">over hundreds of magazine articles, searching through countless<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">biographies, trying to ascertain how the great leaders of all ages had<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">dealt with people. We read their biographies, We read the life stories<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">of all great leaders from Julius Caesar to Thomas Edison. I recall that<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">we read over one hundred biographies of Theodore Roosevelt alone.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">practical idea that anyone had ever used throughout the ages for<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">winning friends and influencing people.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">I personally interviewed scores of successful people, some of them<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">D. Young; movie stars like Clark Gable and Mary Pickford; and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:33:05

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">From all this material, I prepared a short talk. I called it "How to Win<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">hour and thirty minutes. For years, I gave this talk each season to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the adults in the Carnegie Institute courses in New York.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">business and social contacts, and then come back to class and speak<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">interesting assignment! These men and women, hungry for selfimprovement, were fascinated by the idea of working in a new kind<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">This book wasn't written in the usual sense of the word. It grew as a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Years ago, we started with a set of rules printed on a card no larger<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">The rules we have set down here are not mere theories or<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">guesswork. They work like magic. Incredible as it sounds, I have<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">seen the application of these principles literally revolutionize the lives<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:33:22

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">To illustrate: A man with 314 employees joined one of these courses.<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">For years, he had driven and criticized and condemned his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the principles discussed in this book, this employer sharply altered<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">loyalty, a new enthusiasm, a new spirit of team-work. Three hundred<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and fourteen enemies have been turned into 314 friends. As he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">This employer gained more profit, more leisure and -what is infinitely<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Countless numbers of salespeople have sharply increased their sales<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">by the use of these principles. Many have opened up new accounts -<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">accounts that they had formerly solicited in vain. Executives have<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">been given increased authority, increased pay. One executive<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">reported a large increase in salary because he applied these truths.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Another, an executive in the Philadelphia Gas Works Company, was<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">slated for demotion when he was sixty-five because of his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">belligerence, because of his inability to lead people skillfully. This<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">training not only saved him from the demotion but brought him a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">promotion with increased pay.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">On innumerable occasions, spouses attending the banquet given at<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the end of the course have told me that their homes have been<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">much happier since their husbands or wives started this training.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">People are frequently astonished at the new results they achieve. It<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">all seems like magic. In some cases, in their enthusiasm, they have<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">telephoned me at my home on Sundays because they couldn't wait<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:33:40

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">One man was so stirred by a talk on these principles that he sat far<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">into the night discussing them with other members of the class. At<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">three o'clock in the morning, the others went home. But he was so<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">shaken by a realization of his own mistakes, so inspired by the vista<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">of a new and richer world opening before him, that he was unable to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">sleep. He didn't sleep that night or the next day or the next night.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Who was he? A naive, untrained individual ready to gush over any<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">new theory that came along? No, Far from it. He was a sophisticated,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">blasйdealer in art, very much the man about town, who spoke three<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">languages fluently and was a graduate of two European universities.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">While writing this chapter, I received a letter from a German of the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">old school, an aristocrat whose forebears had served for generations<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">as professional army officers under the Hohenzollerns. His letter,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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