帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:40:48

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">The next time we are tempted to admonish somebody, /let's pull a<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">to speak and I will see that you get it." On another occasion he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">said Confucius, "when your own doorstep is unclean."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">When I was still young and trying hard to impress people, I wrote a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">an impression on Richard Harding Davis, so I ended my short note<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">He never troubled to answer the letter. He simply returned it to me<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">perhaps I deserved this rebuke. But, being human, I resented it. I<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Harding Davis ten years later, the one thought that still persisted in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">If you and I want to stir up a resentment tomorrow that may rankle<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">across the decades and endure until death, just let us indulge in a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">little stinging criticism-no matter how certain we are that it is<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:41:05

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">When dealing with people, let us remember we are not dealing with<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Benjamin Franklin, tactless in his youth, became so diplomatic, so<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">said, " . . and speak all the good I know of everybody."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain - and most fools do.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"A great man shows his greatness," said Carlyle, "by the way he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Bob Hoover, a famous test pilot and frequent per-former at air<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Hoover's first act after the emergency landing was to inspect the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Upon returning to the airport, he asked to see the mechanic who had<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">You can imagine Hoover's anger. One could anticipate the tonguelashing that this proud and precise pilot would unleash for that<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">carelessness. But Hoover didn't scold the mechanic; he didn't even<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">want you to service my F-51 tomorrow."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Often parents are tempted to criticize their children. You would<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">expect me to say "don't." But I will not, I am merely going to say,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"Before you criticize them, read one of the classics of American<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">journalism, 'Father Forgets.' " It originally appeared as an editorial in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the People's Home Journnl. We are reprinting it here with the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">author's permission, as condensed in the Reader's Digest:<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"Father Forgets" is one of those little pieces which-dashed of in a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">moment of sincere feeling - strikes an echoing chord in so many<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">author, W, Livingston Larned, "in hundreds of magazines and house<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">organs, and in newspapers the country over. It has been reprinted<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">personal permission to thousands who wished to read it from school,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">church, and lecture platforms. It has been 'on the air' on countless<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">occasions and programs. Oddly enough, college periodicals have<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">used it, and high-school magazines. Sometimes a little piece seems<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">mysteriously to 'click.' This one certainly did."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>

帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:41:23

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">FATHER FORGETS W. Livingston Larned<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Listen, son: I am saying this as you lie asleep, one little paw<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">crumpled under your cheek and the blond curls stickily wet on your<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">damp forehead. I have stolen into your room alone. Just a few<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">minutes ago, as I sat reading my paper in the library, a stifling wave<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">of remorse swept over me. Guiltily I came to your bedside.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">There are the things I was thinking, son: I had been cross to you. I<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">scolded you as you were dressing for school because you gave your<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">face merely a dab with a towel. I took you to task for not cleaning<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">At breakfast I found fault, too. You spilled things. You gulped down<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">your food. You put your elbows on the table. You spread butter too<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">thick on your bread. And as you started off to play and I made for<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">my train, you turned and waved a hand and called, "Goodbye,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Daddy!" and I frowned, and said in reply, "Hold your shoulders<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">back!"<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Then it began all over again in the late afternoon. As I came up the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">road I spied you, down on your knees, playing marbles. There were<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Do you remember, later, when I was reading in the library, how you<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">You said nothing, but ran across in one tempestuous plunge, and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">heart and which even neglect could not wither. And then you were<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">was my reward to you for being a boy. It was not that I did not love<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">you; it was that I expected too much of youth. I was measuring you<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">by the yardstick of my own years.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>

帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:41:44

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">And there was so much that was good and fine and true in your<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">character. The little heart of you was as big as the dawn itself over<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the wide hills. This was shown by your spontaneous impulse to rush<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">It is a feeble atonement; I know you would not understand these<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">things if I told them to you during your waking hours. But tomorrow<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">I will be a real daddy! I will chum with you, and suffer when you<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">nothing but a boy - a little boy!"<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">I am afraid I have visualized you as a man. Yet as I see you now,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">son, crumpled and weary in your cot, I see that you are still a baby.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Yesterday you were in your mother's arms, your head on her<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Instead of condemning people, let's try to understand them. Let's try<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">to figure out why they do what they do. That's a lot more profitable<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and intriguing than criticism; and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">kindness. "To know all is to forgive all."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">As Dr. Johnson said: "God himself, sir, does not propose to judge<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">man until the end of his days."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Why should you and I?<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">• Principle 1 - Don't criticize, condemn or complain.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">2 - The Big Secret Of Dealing With People<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">There is only one way under high heaven to get anybody to do<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">anything. Did you ever stop to think of that? Yes, just one way. And<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">that is by making the other person want to do it.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Remember, there is no other way.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Of course, you can make someone want to give you his watch by<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">sticking a revolver in his ribs. YOU can make your employees give<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">you cooperation - until your back is turned - by threatening to fire<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">them. You can make a child do what you want it to do by a whip or a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">threat. But these crude methods have sharply undesirable<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">repercussions.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">The only way I can get you to do anything is by giving you what you<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:41:59

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">What do you want?<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Sigmund Freud said that everything you and I do springs from two<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">it a bit differently. Dr. Dewey said that the deepest urge in human<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">nature is "the desire to be important." Remember that phrase: "the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">desire to be important." It is significant. You are going to hear a lot<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">about it in this book.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">What do you want? Not many things, but the few that you do wish,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">you crave with an insistence that will not be denied. Some of the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">things most people want include:<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">1. Health and the preservation of life. 2. Food. 3. Sleep. 4. Money<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and the things money will buy. 5. Life in the hereafter. 6. Sexual<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">gratification. 7. The well-being of our children. 8. A feeling of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">importance.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Almost all these wants are usually gratified-all except one. But there<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">is one longing - almost as deep, almost as imperious, as the desire<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">for food or sleep - which is seldom gratified. It is what Freud calls<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"the desire to be great." It is what Dewey calls the "desire to be<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">important."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Lincoln once began a letter saying: "Everybody likes a compliment."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">William James said: "The deepest principle in human nature is the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">craving to be appreciated." He didn't speak, mind you, of the "wish"<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">or the "desire" or the "longing" to be appreciated. He said the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"craving" to be appreciated.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Here is a gnawing and unfaltering human hunger, and the rare<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">individual who honestly satisfies this heart hunger will hold people in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:42:17

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">The desire for a feeling of importance is one of the chief<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">distinguishing differences between mankind and the animals. To<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">illustrate: When I was a farm boy out in Missouri, my father bred fine<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Duroc-Jersey hogs and . pedigreed white - faced cattle. We used to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">exhibit our hogs and white-faced cattle at the country fairs and livestock shows throughout the Middle West. We won first prizes by the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">score. My father pinned his blue ribbons on a sheet of white muslin,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and when friends or visitors came to the house, he would get out the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">other while he exhibited the blue ribbons.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">The hogs didn't care about the ribbons they had won. But Father did.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">These prizes gave him a feeling of importance.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">If our ancestors hadn't had this flaming urge for a feeling of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">importance, civilization would have been impossible. Without it, we<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">should have been just about like animals.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">It was this desire for a feeling of importance that led an uneducated,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">poverty-stricken grocery clerk to study some law books he found in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the bottom of a barrel of household plunder that he had bought for<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">fifty cents. You have probably heard of this grocery clerk. His name<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">was Lincoln.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">It was this desire for a feeling of importance that inspired Dickens to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">write his immortal novels. This desire inspired Sir Christoper Wren to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">design his symphonies in stone. This desire made Rockefeller amass<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">millions that he never spent! And this same desire made the richest<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">family in your town build a house far too large for its requirements.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">This desire makes you want to wear the latest styles, drive the latest<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">cars, and talk about your brilliant children.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">It is this desire that lures many boys and girls into joining gangs and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">according to E. P. Mulrooney, onetime police commissioner of New<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">York, is filled with ego, and his first request after arrest is for those<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">lurid newspapers that make him out a hero. The disagreeable<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">prospect of serving time seems remote so long as he can gloat over<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">his likeness sharing space with pictures of sports figures, movie and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">TV stars and politicians.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">If you tell me how you get your feeling of importance, I'll tell you<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">what you are. That determines your character. That is the most<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">significant thing about you. For example, John D. Rockefeller got his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">feeling of importance by giving money to erect a modern hospital in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Peking, China, to care for millions of poor people whom he had never<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">seen and never would see. Dillinger, on the other hand, got his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">feeling of importance by being a bandit, a bank robber and killer.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">When the FBI agents were hunting him, he dashed into a farmhouse<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">up in Minnesota and said, "I'm Dillinger!" He was proud of the fact<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">that he was Public Enemy Number One. "I'm not going to hurt you,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">but I'm Dillinger!" he said.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Yes, the one significant difference between Dillinger and Rockefeller<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">is how they got their feeling of importance.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>

帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:42:30

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">History sparkles with amusing examples of famous people struggling<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">for a feeling of importance. Even George Washington wanted to be<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">called "His Mightiness, the President of the United States"; and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Columbus pleaded for the title "Admiral of the Ocean and Viceroy of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">India." Catherine the Great refused to open letters that were not<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">addressed to "Her Imperial Majesty"; and Mrs. Lincoln, in the White<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">House, turned upon Mrs. Grant like a tigress and shouted, "How dare<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">you be seated in my presence until I invite you!"<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Our millionaires helped finance Admiral Byrd's expedition to the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Antarctic in 1928 with the understanding that ranges of icy<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">mountains would be named after them; and Victor Hugo aspired to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">have nothing less than the city of Paris renamed in his honor. Even<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Shakespeare, mightiest of the mighty, tried to add luster to his name<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">by procuring a coat of arms for his family.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">People sometimes became invalids in order to win sympathy and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">attention, and get a feeling of importance. For example, take Mrs.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">McKinley. She got a feeling of importance by forcing her husband,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the President of the United States, to neglect important affairs of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">state while he reclined on the bed beside her for hours at a time, his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">arm about her, soothing her to sleep. She fed her gnawing desire for<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">attention by insisting that he remain with her while she was having<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">her teeth fixed, and once created a stormy scene when he had to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">leave her alone with the dentist while he kept an appointment with<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">John Hay, his secretary of state.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">The writer Mary Roberts Rinehart once told me of a bright, vigorous<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">young woman who became an invalid in order to get a feeling of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">importance. "One day," said Mrs. Rinehart, "this woman had been<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">obliged to face something, her age perhaps. The lonely years were<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">stretching ahead and there was little left for her to anticipate.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"She took to her bed; and for ten years her old mother traveled to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the third floor and back, carrying trays, nursing her. Then one day<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the old mother, weary with service, lay down and died. For some<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">weeks, the invalid languished; then she got up, put on her clothing,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and resumed living again."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>

帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:42:43

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Some authorities declare that people may actually go insane in order<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">to find, in the dreamland of insanity, the feeling of importance that<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">has been denied them in the harsh world of reality. There are more<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">patients suffering from mental diseases in the United States than<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">from all other diseases combined.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">What is the cause of insanity?<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Nobody can answer such a sweeping question, but we know that<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">certain diseases, such as syphilis, break down and destroy the brain<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">cells and result in insanity. In fact, about one-half of all mental<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">diseases can be attributed to such physical causes as brain lesions,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">alcohol, toxins and injuries. But the other half - and this is the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">insane apparently have nothing organically wrong with their brain<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">cells. In post-mortem examinations, when their brain tissues are<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">studied under the highest-powered microscopes, these tissues are<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">found to be apparently just as healthy as yours and mine.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Why do these people go insane?<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">I put that question to the head physician of one of our most<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">important psychiatric hospitals. This doctor, who has received the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">highest honors and the most coveted awards for his knowledge of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">this subject, told me frankly that he didn't know why people went<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">insane. Nobody knows for sure But he did say that many people who<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">go insane find in insanity a feeling of importance that they were<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">unable to achieve in the world of reality. Then he told me this story:<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"I have a patient right now whose marriage proved to be a tragedy.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">She wanted love, sexual gratification, children and social prestige,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">but life blasted all her hopes. Her husband didn't love her. He<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">refused even to eat with her and forced her to serve his meals in his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">room upstairs. She had no children, no social standing. She went<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">insane; and, in her imagination, she divorced her husband and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">resumed her maiden name. She now believes she has married into<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">English aristocracy, and she insists on being called Lady Smith.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"And as for children, she imagines now that she has had a new child<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">every night. Each time I call on her she says: 'Doctor, I had a baby<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">last night.' "<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Life once wrecked all her dream ships on the sharp rocks of reality;<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">but in the sunny, fantasy isles of insanity, all her barkentines race<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">into port with canvas billowing and winds singing through the masts.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">" Tragic? Oh, I don't know. Her physician said to me: If I could<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">stretch out my hand and restore her sanity, I wouldn't do it. She's<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">much happier as she is."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>

帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:43:02

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">If some people are so hungry for a feeling of importance that they<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">actually go insane to get it, imagine what miracle you and I can<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">achieve by giving people honest appreciation this side of insanity.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">One of the first people in American business to be paid a salary of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">over a million dollars a year (when there was no income tax and a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">person earning fifty dollars a week was considered well off) was<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Charles Schwab, He had been picked by Andrew Carnegie to become<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the first president of the newly formed United States Steel Company<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">in 1921, when Schwab was only thirty-eight years old. (Schwab later<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">left U.S. Steel to take over the then-troubled Bethlehem Steel<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Company, and he rebuilt it into one of the most profitable companies<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">in America.)<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Why did Andrew Carnegie pay a million dollars a year, or more than<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">three thousand dollars a day, to Charles Schwab? Why? Because<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Schwab was a genius? No. Because he knew more about the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">manufacture of steel than other people? Nonsense. Charles Schwab<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">told me himself that he had many men working for him who knew<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">more about the manufacture of steel than he did.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Schwab says that he was paid this salary largely because of his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">ability to deal with people. I asked him how he did it. Here is his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">secret set down in his own words - words that ought to be cast in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">eternal bronze and hung in every home and school, every shop and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">office in the land - words that children ought to memorize instead of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">transform your life and mine if we will only live them:<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"I consider my ability to arouse enthusiasm among my people," said<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Schwab, "the greatest asset I possess, and the way to develop the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">best that is in a person is by appreciation and encouragement.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"There is nothing else that so kills the ambitions of a person as<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">criticisms from superiors. I never criticize any-one. I believe in giving<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">a person incentive to work. So I am anxious to praise but loath to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">find fault. If I like anything, I am hearty in my approbation and lavish<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">in my praise. "<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">That is what Schwab did. But what do average people do? The exact<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">opposite. If they don't like a thing, they bawl out their subordinates;<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">if they do like it, they say nothing. As the old couplet says: "Once I<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">did bad and that I heard ever/Twice I did good, but that I heard<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">never."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>

帅哥 发表于 2009-1-1 17:43:15

<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"In my wide association in life, meeting with many and great people<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">in various parts of the world," Schwab declared, "I have yet to find<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the person, however great or exalted his station, who did not do<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">better work and put forth greater effort under a spirit of approval<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">than he would ever do under a spirit of criticism."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">That he said, frankly, was one of the outstanding reasons for the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">phenomenal success of Andrew Carnegie. Carnegie praised his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">associates publicly as well as pr-vately.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Carnegie wanted to praise his assistants even on his tombstone. He<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">wrote an epitaph for himself which read: "Here lies one who knew<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">how to get around him men who were cleverer than himself:"<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Sincere appreciation was one of the secrets of the first John D.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Rockefeller's success in handling men. For example, when one of his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">partners, Edward T. Bedford, lost a million dollars for the firm by a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">bad buy in South America, John D. might have criticized; but he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">knew Bedford had done his best - and the incident was closed. So<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Rockefeller found something to praise; he congratulated Bedford<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">because he had been able to save 60 percent of the money he had<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">invested. "That's splendid," said Rockefeller. "We don't always do as<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">well as that upstairs."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">I have among my clippings a story that I know never happened, but<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">it illustrates a truth, so I'll repeat it:<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">According to this silly story, a farm woman, at the end of a heavy<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">day's work, set before her menfolks a heaping pile of hay. And when<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">they indignantly demanded whether she had gone crazy, she replied:<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"Why, how did I know you'd notice? I've been cooking for you men<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">for the last twenty years and in all that time I ain't heard no word to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">let me know you wasn't just eating hay."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">When a study was made a few years ago on runaway wives, what do<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">you think was discovered to be the main reason wives ran away? It<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">was "lack of appreciation." And I'd bet that a similar study made of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">runaway husbands would come out the same way. We often take our<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">spouses so much for granted that we never let them know we<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">appreciate them.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">A member of one of our classes told of a request made by his wife.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">She and a group of other women in her church were involved in a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">self-improvement program. She asked her husband to help her by<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">listing six things he believed she could do to help her become a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">better wife. He reported to the class: "I was surprised by such a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">request. Frankly, it would have been easy for me to list six things I<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">would like to change about her - my heavens, she could have listed a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">thousand things she would like to change about me - but I didn't. I<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">morning.'<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"The next morning I got up very early and called the florist and had<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">you are.'<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"When I arrived at home that evening, who do you think greeted me<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">at the door: That's right. My wife! She was almost in tears. Needless<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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