帅哥
发表于 2009-1-1 17:50:43
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Sometimes it is difficult to remember a name, particularly if it is hard<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">to pronounce. Rather than even try to learn it, many people ignore it<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">or call the person by an easy nickname. Sid Levy called on a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">customer for some time whose name was Nicodemus Papadoulos.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Most people just called him "Nick." Levy told us: "I made a special<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">effort to say his name over several times to myself before I made my<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">call. When I greeted him by his full name: 'Good afternoon, Mr.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Nicodemus Papadoulos,' he was shocked. For what seemed like<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">several minutes there was no reply from him at all. Finally, he said<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">with tears rolling down his cheeks, 'Mr. Levy, in all the fifteen years I<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">have been in this country, nobody has ever made the effort to call<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">me by my right name.' "<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">What was the reason for Andrew Carnegie's success?<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">He was called the Steel King; yet he himself knew little about the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">manufacture of steel. He had hundreds of people working for him<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">who knew far more about steel than he did.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">But he knew how to handle people, and that is what made him rich.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Early in life, he showed a flair for organization, a genius for<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">leadership. By the time he was ten, he too had discovered the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">astounding importance people place on their own name. And he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">used that discovery to win cooperation. To illustrate: When he was a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">boy back in Scotland, he got hold of a rabbit, a mother rabbit.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Presto! He soon had a whole nest of little rabbits - and nothing to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">feed them. But he had a brilliant idea. He told the boys and girls in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the neighborhood that if they would go out and pull enough clover<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and dandelions to feed the rabbits, he would name the bunnies in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">their honor.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">The plan worked like magic, and Carnegie never forgot it.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Years later, he made millions by using the same psychology in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">business. For example, he wanted to sell steel rails to the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Pennsylvania Railroad. J. Edgar Thomson was the president of the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Pennsylvania Railroad then. So Andrew Carnegie built a huge steel<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">mill in Pittsburgh and called it the "Edgar Thomson Steel Works."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Here is a riddle. See if you can guess it. When the Pennsylvania<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Railroad needed steel rails, where do you suppose J. Edgar Thomson<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">bought them?. . , From Sears, Roebuck? No. No. You're wrong.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Guess again. When Carnegie and George Pullman were battling each<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">other for supremacy in the railroad sleeping-car business, the Steel<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">King again remembered the lesson of the rabbits.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">The Central Transportation Company, which Andrew Carnegie<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">controlled, was fighting with the company that Pullman owned. Both<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">were struggling to get the sleeping-car business of the Union Pacific<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Railroad, bucking each other, slashing prices, and destroving all<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">chance of profit. Both Carnegie and Pullman had gone to New York<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">to see the board of directors of the Union Pacific. Meeting one<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">evening in the St. Nicholas Hotel, Carnegie said: "Good evening, Mr.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Pullman, aren't we making a couple of fools of ourselves?"<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"What do you mean.?" Pullman demanded.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Then Carnegie expressed what he had on his mind - a merger of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">their two interests. He pictured in glowing terms the mutual<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">advantages of working with, instead of against, each other. Pullman<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">listened attentively, but he was not wholly convinced. Finally he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">asked, "What would you call the new company?" and Carnegie<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">replied promptly: "Why, the Pullman Palace Car Company, of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">course."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Pullman's face brightened. "Come into my room," he said. "Let's talk<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">it over." That talk made industrial history.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">This policy of remembering and honoring the names of his friends<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and business associates was one of the secrets of Andrew Carnegie's<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">leadership. He was proud of the fact that he could call many of his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">factory workers by their first names, and he boasted that while he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">was personally in charge, no strike ever disturbed his flaming steel<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">mills.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Benton Love, chairman of Texas Commerce Banc-shares, believes<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">that the bigger a corporation gets, the colder it becomes. " One way<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">to warm it up," he said, "is to remember people's names. The<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">executive who tells me he can't remember names is at the same time<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">telling me he can't remember a significant part of his business and is<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">operating on quicksand."</SPAN>
帅哥
发表于 2009-1-1 17:50:57
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Karen Kirsech of Rancho Palos Verdes, California, a flight attendant<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">for TWA, made it a practice to learn the names of as many<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">passengers in her cabin as possible and use the name when serving<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">them. This resulted in many compliments on her service expressed<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">both to her directly and to the airline. One passenger wrote: "I<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">haven't flown TWA for some time, but I'm going to start flying<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">nothing but TWA from now on. You make me feel that your airline<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">has become a very personalized airline and that is important to me."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">People are so proud of their names that they strive to perpetuate<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">them at any cost. Even blustering, hard-boiled old P. T. Barnum, the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">greatest showman of his time, disappointed because he had no sons<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">to carry on his name, offered his grandson, C. H. Seeley, $25,000<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">dollars if he would call himself "Barnum" Seeley.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">For many centuries, nobles and magnates supported artists,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">musicians and authors so that their creative works would be<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">dedicated to them.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Libraries and museums owe their richest collections to people who<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">cannot bear to think that their names might perish from the memory<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">of the race. The New York Public Library has its Astor and Lenox<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">collections. The Metropolitan Museum perpetuates the names of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Benjamin Altman and J. P. Morgan. And nearly every church is<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">beautified by stained-glass windows commemorating the names of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">their donors. Many of the buildings on the campus of most<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">universities bear the names of donors who contributed large sums of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">money for this honor.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Most people don't remember names, for the simple reason that they<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">don't take the time and energy necessary to concentrate and repeat<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and fix names indelibly in their minds. They make excuses for<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">themselves; they are too busy.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">But they were probably no busier than Franklin D. Roosevelt, and he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">took time to remember and recall even the names of mechanics with<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">whom he came into contact.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">To illustrate: The Chrysler organization built a special car for Mr.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Roosevelt, who could not use a standard car because his legs were<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">paralyzed. W. F. Chamberlain and a mechanic delivered it to the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">White House. I have in front of me a letter from Mr. Chamberlain<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">relating his experiences. "I taught President Roosevelt how to handle<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">a car with a lot of unusual gadgets, but he taught me a lot about the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">fine art of handling people.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"When I called at the White House," Mr. Chamberlain writes, "the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">President was extremely pleasant and cheerful. He called me by<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">name, made me feel very comfortable, and particularly impressed<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">me with the fact that he was vitally interested in things I had to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">show him and tell him. The car was so designed that it could be<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">operated entirely by hand. A crowd gathered around to look at the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">car; and he remarked: 'I think it is marvelous. All you have to do is<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">to touch a button and it moves away and you can drive it without<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">effort. I think it is grand - I don't know what makes it go. I'd love to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">have the time to tear it down and see how it works.'<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"When Roosevelt's friends and associates admired the machine, he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">said in their presence: 'Mr. Chamberlain, I certainly appreciate all the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">time and effort you have spent in developing this car. It is a mighty<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">fine job.' He admired the radiator, the special rear-vision mirror and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">clock, the special spotlight, the kind of upholstery, the sitting position<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">of the driver's seat, the special suitcases in the trunk with his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">monogram on each suitcase. In other words, he took notice of every<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">detail to which he knew I had given considerable thought. He made<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">a point of bringing these various pieces of equipment to the attention<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">of Mrs. Roosevelt, Miss Perkins, the Secretary of Labor, and his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">secretary. He even brought the old White House porter into the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">picture by saying, 'George, you want to take particularly good care of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the suitcases.'<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"When the driving lesson was finished, the President turned to me<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and said: 'Well, Mr. Chamberlain, I have been keeping the Federal<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Reserve Board waiting thirty minutes. I guess I had better get back<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">to work.'</SPAN>
帅哥
发表于 2009-1-1 17:51:09
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"I took a mechanic with me to the White House. He was introduced<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">to Roosevelt when he arrived. He didn't talk to the President, and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Roosevelt heard his name only once. He was a shy chap, and he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">kept in the background. But before leaving us, the President looked<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">for the mechanic, shook his hand, called him by name, and thanked<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">him for coming to Washington. And there was nothing perfunctory<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">about his thanks. He meant what he said. I could feel that.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"A few days after returning to New York, I got an autographed<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">photograph of President Roosevelt and a little note of thanks again<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">expressing his appreciation for my assistance. How he found time to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">do it is a mystery to me ."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Franklin D. Roosevelt knew that one of the simplest, most obvious<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and most important ways of gaining good will was by remembering<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">names and making people feel important - yet how many of us do it?<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Half the time we are introduced to a stranger, we chat a few minutes<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and can't even remember his or her name by the time we say<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">goodbye.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">One of the first lessons a politician learns is this: "To recall a voter's<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">name is statesmanship. To forget it is oblivion."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">And the ability to remember names is almost as important in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">business and social contacts as it is in politics.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Napoleon the Third, Emperor of France and nephew of the great<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Napoleon, boasted that in spite of all his royal duties he could<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">remember the name of every person he met.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">His technique? Simple. If he didn't hear the name distinctly, he said,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"So sorry. I didn't get the name clearly." Then, if it was an unusual<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">name, he would say, "How is it spelled?"<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">During the conversation, he took the trouble to repeat the name<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">several times, and tried to associate it in his mind with the person's<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">features, expression and general appearance.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">If the person was someone of importance, Napoleon went to even<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">further pains. As soon as His Royal Highness was alone, he wrote the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">name down on a piece of paper, looked at it, concentrated on it,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">fixed it securely in his mind, and then tore up the paper. In this way,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">he gained an eye impression of the name as well as an ear<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">impression.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">All this takes time, but "Good manners," said Emerson, "are made up<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">of petty sacrifices."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Ken Nottingham, an employee of General Motors in Indiana, usually<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">worked behind the counter always had a scowl on her face. "She had<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">been making sandwiches for about two hours and I was just another<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">sandwich to her. I told her what I wanted. She weighed out the ham<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">on a little scale, then she gave me one leaf of lettuce, a few potato<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"The next day I went through the same line. Same woman, same<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">scowl. The only difference was I noticed her name tag. I smiled and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">said, 'Hello, Eunice,' and then told her what I wanted. Well, she<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">forgot the scale, piled on the ham, gave me three leaves of lettuce<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and heaped on the potato chips until they fell off the plate."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">We should be aware of the magic contained in a name and realize<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">that this single item is wholly and completely owned by the person<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">with whom we are dealing and nobody else. The name sets the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">individual apart; it makes him or her unique among all others. The<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">information we are imparting or the request we are making takes on<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">a special importance when we approach the situation with the name<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">of the individual. From the waitress to the senior executive, the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">name will work magic as we deal with others.</SPAN>
帅哥
发表于 2009-1-1 17:51:26
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">• Principle 3 - Remember that a person's name is to that person the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">4 - An Easy Way To Become A Good Conversationalist<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Some time ago, I attended a bridge party. I don't play bridge - and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">there was a woman there who didn't play bridge either. She had<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">discovered that I had once been Lowell Thomas' manager before he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">went on the radio and that I had traveled in Europe a great deal<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">while helping him prepare the illustrated travel talks he was then<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">delivering. So she said: "Oh, Mr. Carnegie, I do want you to tell me<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">about all the wonderful places you have visited and the sights you<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">have seen."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">As we sat down on the sofa, she remarked that she and her husband<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">had recently returned from a trip to Africa. "Africa!" I exclaimed.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"How interesting! I've always wanted to see Africa, but I never got<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">there except for a twenty-four-hour stay once in Algiers. Tell me, did<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">you visit the big-game country? Yes? How fortunate. I envy you. Do<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">tell me about Africa."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">That kept her talking for forty-five minutes. She never again asked<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">me where I had been or what I had seen. She didn't want to hear<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">me talk about my travels. All she wanted was an interested listener,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">so she could expand her ego and tell about where she had been.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Was she unusual? No. Many people are like that.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">For example, I met a distinguished botanist at a dinner party given<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">by a New York book publisher. I had never talked with a botanist<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">before, and I found him fascinating. I literally sat on the edge of my<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">chair and listened while he spoke of exotic plants and experiments in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">developing new forms of plant life and indoor gardens (and even told<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">me astonishing facts about the humble potato). I had a small indoor<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">garden of my own - and he was good enough to tell me how to solve<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">some of my problems.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">As I said, we were at a dinner party. There must have been a dozen<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">other guests, but I violated all the canons of courtesy, ignored<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">everyone else, and talked for hours to the botanist.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Midnight came, I said good night to everyone and departed. The<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">botanist then turned to our host and paid me several flattering<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">compliments. I was "most stimulating." I was this and I was that,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and he ended by saying I was a "most interesting conversationalist."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">An interesting conversationalist? Why, I had said hardly anything at<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">all. I couldn't have said anything if I had wanted to without changing<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the subject, for I didn't know any more about botany than I knew<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">about the anatomy of a penguin. But I had done this: I had listened<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">intently. I had listened because I was genuinely interested. And he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">felt it. Naturally that pleased him. That kind of listening is one of the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">highest compliments we can pay anyone. "Few human beings,"<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">wrote Jack Woodford in Strangers in Love, "few human beings are<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">proof against the implied flattery of rapt attention." I went even<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">further than giving him rapt attention. I was "hearty in my<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">approbation and lavish in my praise."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">I told him that I had been immensely entertained and instructed -<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and I had. I told him I wished I had his knoledge - and I did. I told<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">him that I should love to wander the fields with him - and I have. I<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">told him I must see him again - and I did.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">And so I had him thinking of me as a good conversationalist when, in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">reality, I had been merely a good listener and had encouraged him<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">to talk.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">What is the secret, the mystery, of a successful business interview?<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Well, according to former Harvard president Charles W. Eliot, "There<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">is no mystery about successful business intercourse. ... Exclusive<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">attention to the person who is speaking to you is very important.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">Nothing else is so flattering as that."</SPAN>
帅哥
发表于 2009-1-1 17:51:41
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Eliot himself was a past master of the art of listening, Henry James,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">one of America's first great novelists, recalled: "Dr. Eliot's listening<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">was not mere silence, but a form of activity. Sitting very erect on the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">end of his spine with hands joined in his lap, making no movement<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">except that he revolved his thumbs around each other faster or<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">slower, he faced his interlocutor and seemed to be hearing with his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">eyes as well as his ears. He listened with his mind and attentively<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">considered what you had to say while you said it. ... At the end of an<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">interview the person who had talked to him felt that he had had his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">say."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Self-evident, isn't it? You don't have to study for four years in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Harvard to discover that. Yet I know and you know department store<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">owners who will rent expensive space, buy their goods economically,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">dress their windows appealingly, spend thousands of dollars in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">advertising and then hire clerks who haven't the sense to be good<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">listeners - clerks who interrupt customers, contradict them, irritate<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">them, and all but drive them from the store.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">A department store in Chicago almost lost a regular customer who<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">spent several thousand dollars each year in that store because a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">sales clerk wouldn't listen. Mrs. Henrietta Douglas, who took our<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">course in Chicago, had purchased a coat at a special sale. After she<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">had brought it home she noticed that there was a tear in the lining.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">She came back the next day and asked the sales clerk to exchange<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">it. The clerk refused even to listen to her complaint. "You bought this<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">at a special sale," she said. She pointed to a sign on the wall. "Read<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">that," she exclaimed. " 'All sales are final.' Once you bought it, you<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">have to keep it. Sew up the lining yourself."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"But this was damaged merchandise," Mrs. Douglas complained.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"Makes no difference," the clerk interrupted. "Final's final "<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Mrs. Douglas was about to walk out indignantly, swearing never to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">return to that store ever, when she was greeted by the department<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">manager, who knew her from her many years of patronage. Mrs.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Douglas told her what had happened.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">The manager listened attentively to the whole story, examined the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">coat and then said: "Special sales are 'final' so we can dispose of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">merchandise at the end of the season. But this 'no return' policy<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">does not apply to damaged goods. We will certainly repair or replace<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the lining, or if you prefer, give you your money back."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">What a difference in treatment! If that manager had not come along<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and listened to the Customer, a long-term patron of that store could<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">have been lost forever.</SPAN>
帅哥
发表于 2009-1-1 17:51:53
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Listening is just as important in one's home life as in the world of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">business. Millie Esposito of Croton-on-Hudson, New York, made it her<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">business to listen carefully when one of her children wanted to speak<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">with her. One evening she was sitting in the kitchen with her son,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Robert, and after a brief discussion of something that was on his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">mind, Robert said: "Mom, I know that you love me very much."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Mrs. Esposito was touched and said: "Of course I love you very<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">much. Did you doubt it?"<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Robert responded: "No, but I really know you love me because<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">whenever I want to talk to you about something you stop whatever<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">you are doing and listen to me."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">The chronic kicker, even the most violent critic, will frequently soften<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and be subdued in the presence of a patient, sympathetic listener - a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">listener who will he silent while the irate fault-finder dilates like a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">king cobra and spews the poison out of his system. To illustrate: The<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">New York Telephone Company discovered a few years ago that it<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">had to deal with one of the most vicious customers who ever cursed<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">a customer service representative. And he did curse. He raved. He<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">threatened to tear the phone out by its roots. He refused to pay<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">certain charges that he declared were false. He wrote letters to the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">newspapers. He filed innumerable complaints with the Public Service<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Commission, and he started several suits against the telephone<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">company.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">At last, one of the company's most skillful "trouble-shooters" was<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">sent to interview this stormy petrel. This "troubleshooter" listened<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and let the cantankerous customer enjoy himself pouring out his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">tirade. The telephone representative listened and said "yes" and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">sympathized with his grievance.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"He raved on and I listened for nearlv three hours," the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"troubleshooter" said as he related his experiences before one of the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">author's classes. "Then I went back and listened some more. I<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">interviewed him four times, and before the fourth visit was over I<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">had become a charter member of an organization he was starting.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">He called it the 'Telephone Subscribers' Protective Association.' I am<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">still a member of this organization, and, so far as I know, I'm the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">only member in the world today besides Mr. ----.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"I listened and sympathized with him on every point that he made<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">during these interviews. He had never had a telephone<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">representative talk with him that way before, and he became almost<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">friendly. The point on which I went to see him was not even<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">mentioned on the first visit, nor was it mentioned on the second or<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">third, but upon the fourth interview, I closed the case completely, he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">paid all his bills in full, and for the first time in the history of his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">difficulties with the telephone company he voluntarily withdrew his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">complaints from the Public Service Commission."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Doubtless Mr. ----- had considered himself a holy crusader,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">defending the public rights against callous exploitation. But in reality,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">what he had really wanted was a feeling of importance. He got this<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">feeling of importance at first by kicking and complaining. But as soon<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">as he got his feeling of importance from a representative of the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">company, his imagined grievances vanished into thin air.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">One morning years ago, an angry customer stormed into the office<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">of Julian F. Detmer, founder of the Detmer Woolen Company, which<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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帅哥
发表于 2009-1-1 17:52:04
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"This man owed us a small sum of money," Mr. Detmer explained to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">me. "The customer denied it, but we knew he was wrong. So our<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">credit department had insisted that he pay. After getting a number of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">letters from our credit department, he packed his grip, made a trip to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Chicago, and hurried into my office to inform me not only that he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">was not going to pay that bill, but that he was never going to buy<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">another dollar's worth of goods from the Detmer Woolen Company.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"I listened patiently to all he had to say. I was tempted to interrupt,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">but I realized that would be bad policy, So I let him talk himself out.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">When he finally simmered down and got in a receptive mood, I said<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">quietly: 'I want to thank vou for coming to Chicago to tell me about<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">this. You have done me a great favor, for if our credit department<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">has annoyed you, it may annoy other good customers, and that<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">would be just too bad. Believe me, I am far more eager to hear this<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">than you are to tell it.'<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"That was the last thing in the world he expected me to say. I think<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">he was a trifle disappointed, because he had come to Chicago to tell<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">me a thing or two, but here I was thanking him instead of scrapping<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">with him. I assured him we would wipe the charge off the books and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">forget it, because he was a very careful man with only one account<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">to look after, while our clerks had to look after thousands. Therefore,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">he was less likely to be wrong than we were.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"I told him that I understood exactly how he felt and that, if I were<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">in his shoes, I should undoubtedly feel precisely as he did. Since he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">wasn't going to buy from us anymore, I recommended some other<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">woolen houses.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"In the past, we had usually lunched together when he came to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Chicago, so I invited him to have lunch with me this day. He<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">accepted reluctantly, but when we came back to the office he placed<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">mood and, wanting to be just as fair with us as we had been with<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">him, looked over his bills, found one that had been mislaid, and sent<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">us a check with his apologies.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"Later, when his wife presented him with a baby boy, he gave his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">son the middle name of Detmer, and he remained a friend and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">customer of the house until his death twenty-two years afterwards."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Years ago, a poor Dutch immigrant boy washed the windows of a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">bakery shop after school to help support his family. His people were<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">so poor that in addition he used to go out in the street with a basket<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">every day and collect stray bits of coal that had fallen in the gutter<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">where the coal wagons had delivered fuel. That boy, Edward Bok,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">never got more than six years of schooling in his life; yet eventually<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">he made himself one of the most successful magazine editors in the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">history of American journalism. How did he do it? That is a long<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">story, but how he got his start can be told briefly. He got his start by<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">using the principles advocated in this chapter.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">He left school when he was thirteen and became an office boy for<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Western Union, but he didn't for one moment give up the idea of an<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">education. Instead, he started to educate himself, He saved his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">an encyclopedia of American biography - and then he did an<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">unheard-of thing. He read the lives of famous people and wrote<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">them asking for additional information about their childhoods. He<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">was a good listener. He asked famous people to tell him more about<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">themselves. He wrote General James A. Garfield, who was then<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">running for President, and asked if it was true that he was once a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">tow boy on a canal; and Garfield replied. He wrote General Grant<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">invited this fourteen-year old boy to dinner and spent the evening<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">talking to him.</SPAN>
帅哥
发表于 2009-1-1 17:52:17
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Soon our Western Union messenger boy was corresponding with<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">many of the most famous people in the nation: Ralph Waldo<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Emerson, Oliver Wendell Holmes, Longfellow, Mrs. Abraham Lincoln,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Louisa May Alcott, General Sherman and Jefferson Davis. Not only<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">did he correspond with these distinguished people, but as soon as he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">got a vacation, he visited many of them as a welcome guest in their<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">homes. This experience imbued him with a confidence that was<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">invaluable. These men and women fired him with a vision and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">ambition that shaped his life. And all this, let me repeat, was made<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">possible solely by the application of the principles we are discussing<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">here.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Isaac F. Marcosson, a journalist who interviewed hundreds of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">celebrities, declared that many people fail to make a favorable<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">impression because they don't listen attentively. "They have been so<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">much concerned with what they are going to say next that they do<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">not keep their ears open. ... Very important people have told me that<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">they prefer good listeners to good talkers, but the ability to listen<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">seems rarer than almost any other good trait ."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">And not only important personages crave a good listener, but<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">ordinary folk do too. As the Reader's Digest once said: "Many<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">persons call a doctor when all they want is an audience,"<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">During the darkest hours of the Civil War, Lincoln wrote to an old<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">friend in Springfield, Illinois, asking him to come to Washington.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Lincoln said he had some problems he wanted to discuss with him.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">The old neighbor called at the White House, and Lincoln talked to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">him for hours about the advisability of issuing a proclamation freeing<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the slaves. Lincoln went over all the arguments for and against such<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">a move, and then read letters and newspaper articles, some<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">denouncing him for not freeing the slaves and others denouncing<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">him for fear he was going to free them. After talking for hours,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Lincoln shook hands with his old neighbor, said good night, and sent<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">him back to Illinois without even asking for his opinion. Lincoln had<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">done all the talking himself. That seemed to clarify his mind. "He<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">seemed to feel easier after that talk," the old friend said. Lincoln<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">hadn't wanted advice, He had wanted merely a friendly, sympathetic<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">listener to whom he could unburden himself. That's what we all want<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">when we are in trouble. That is frequently all the irritated customer<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">wants, and the dissatisfied employee or the hurt friend.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">One of the great listeners of modern times was Sigmund Freud. A<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">man who met Freud described his manner of listening: "It struck me<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">so forcibly that I shall never forget him. He had qualities which I had<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">never seen in any other man. Never had I seen such concentrated<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">attention. There was none of that piercing 'soul penetrating gaze'<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">business. His eyes were mild and genial. His voice was low and kind.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">His gestures were few. But the attention he gave me, his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">appreciation of what I said, even when I said it badly, was<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">extraordinary, You've no idea what it meant to be listened to like<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">that."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">If you want to know how to make people shun you and laugh at you<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">behind your back and even despise you, here is the recipe: Never<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">listen to anyone for long. Talk incessantly about yourself. If you have<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">an idea while the other person is talking, don't wait for him or her to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">finish: bust right in and interrupt in the middle of a sentence.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Do you know people like that? I do, unfortunately; and the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">astonishing part of it is that some of them are prominent.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Bores, that is all they are - bores intoxicated with their own egos,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">drunk with a sense of their own importance.</SPAN>
帅哥
发表于 2009-1-1 17:52:32
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">People who talk only of themselves think only of themselves. And<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"those people who think only of themselves," Dr. Nicholas Murray<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Butler, longtime president of Columbia University, said, "are<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">hopelessly uneducated. They are not educated," said Dr. Butler, "no<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">matter how instructed they may be."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">So if you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">listener. To be interesting, be interested. Ask questions that other<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">persons will enjoy answering. Encourage them to talk about<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">themselves and their accomplishments.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Remember that the people you are talking to are a hundred times<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">more interested in themselves and their wants and problems than<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">they are in you and your problems. A person's toothache means<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">more to that person than a famine in China which kills a million<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">people. A boil on one's neck interests one more than forty<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">earthquakes in Africa. Think of that the next time you start a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">conversation.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">• Principle 4 - Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">themselves.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">5 - How To Interest People<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Everyone who was ever a guest of Theodore Roosevelt was<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">astonished at the range and diversity of his knowledge. Whether his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">visitor was a cowboy or a Rough Rider, a New York politician or a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">diplomat, Roosevelt knew what to say. And how was it done? The<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">answer was simple. Whenever Roosevelt expected a visitor, he sat<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">up late the night before, reading up on the subject in which he knew<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">his guest was particularly interested.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">For Roosevelt knew, as all leaders know, that the royal road to a<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">person's heart is to talk about the things he or she treasures most.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">The genial William Lyon Phelps, essayist and professor of literature<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">at Yale, learned this lesson early in life.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"When I was eight years old and was spending a weekend visiting<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">my Aunt Libby Linsley at her home in Stratford on the Housatonic,"<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">he wrote in his essay on Human Nature, "a middle-aged man called<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">one evening, and after a polite skirmish with my aunt, he devoted his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">attention to me. At that time, I happened to be excited about boats,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and the visitor discussed the subject in a way that seemed to me<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">particularly interesting. After he left, I spoke of him with enthusiasm.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">What a man! My aunt informed me he was a New York lawyer, that<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">he cared nothing whatever about boats - that he took not the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">slightest interest in the subject. 'But why then did he talk all the time<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">about boats?'<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">" 'Because he is a gentleman. He saw you were interested in boats,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and he talked about the things he knew would interest and please<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">you. He made himself agreeable.' "<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">And William Lyon Phelps added: "I never forgot my aunt's remark."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">As I write this chapter, I have before me a letter from Edward L.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Chalif, who was active in Boy Scout work.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"One day I found I needed a favor," wrote Mr. Chalif. "A big Scout<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">jamboree was coming off in Europe, and I wanted the president of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">one of the largest corporations in America to pay the expenses of<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">one of my boys for the trip.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"Fortunately, just before I went to see this man, I heard that he had<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">drawn a check for a million dollars, and that after it was canceled, he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">had had it framed.</SPAN>
帅哥
发表于 2009-1-1 17:52:43
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"So the first thing I did when I entered his office was to ask to see<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the check. A check for a million dollars! I told him I never knew that<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">anybody had ever written such a check, and that I wanted to tell my<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">boys that I had actually seen a check for a million dollars. He gladly<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">showed it to me; I admired it and asked him to tell me all about how<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">it happened to be drawn."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">You notice, don't you, that Mr. Chalif didn't begin by talking about<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the Boy Scouts, or the jamboree in Europe, or what it was he<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">wanted? He talked in terms of what interested the other man. Here's<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">the result:<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"Presently, the man I was interviewing said: 'Oh, by the way, what<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">was it you wanted to see me about?' So I told him.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"To my vast surprise," Mr. Chalif continues, "he not only granted<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">immediately what I asked for, but much more. I had asked him to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">send only one boy to Europe, but he sent five boys and myself, gave<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">me a letter of credit for a thousand dollars and told us to stay in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Europe for seven weeks. He also gave me letters of introduction to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">his branch presidents, putting them at our service, and he himself<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">met us in Paris and showed us the town.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Since then, he has given jobs to some of the boys whose parents<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"Yet I know if I hadn't found out what he was interested in, and got<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">him warmed up first, I wouldn't have found him one-tenth as easy to<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">approach."<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Is this a valuable technique to use in business? Is it? Let's see, Take<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Henry G. Duvernoy of Duvemoy and Sons, a wholesale baking firm in<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Mr. Duvernoy had been trying to sell bread to a certain New York<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">rooms in the hotel and lived there in order to get the business. But<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">he failed.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"Then," said Mr. Duvernoy, "after studying human relations, I<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">resolved to change my tactics. I decided to find out what interested<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">this man - what caught his enthusiasm.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"I discovered he belonged to a society of hotel executives called the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Hotel Greeters of America. He not only belonged, but his bubbling<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">enthusiasm had made him president of the organization, and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">president of the International Greeters. No matter where its<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">conventions were held, he would be there.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"So when I saw him the next day, I began talking about the<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">Greeters. What a response I got. What a response! He talked to me<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">for half an hour about the Greeters, his tones vibrant with<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">enthusiasm. I could plainly see that this society was not only his<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">hobby, it was the passion of his life. Before I left his office, he had<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">'sold' me a membership in his organization.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"In the meantime, I had said nothing about bread. But a few days<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">later, the steward of his hotel phoned me to come over with samples<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">and prices.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">" 'I don't know what you did to the old boy,' the steward greeted me,<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">'but he sure is sold on you!'<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">"Think of it! I had been drumming at that man for four years - trying<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">to get his business - and I'd still be drumming at him if I hadn't<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none" align=left><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE">finally taken the trouble to find out what he was interested in, and<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><SPAN lang=X-NONE style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-ansi-language: X-NONE; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">what he enjoyed talking about."</SPAN>
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